I worry that I am not satisfying my girlfriend. She sometimes talks about her past boyfriends and mentions how, you know, "large" they were. She always says it as a joke and I don't think she realizes how much it hurts me.

I was wondering if you knew of any safe, non-surgical options that could increase my size, you know, "down there."

Thanks.

My husband and I were first married a year ago, and financial concerns have recently forced us to move in with his parents. They've been supportive in most every respect but one: they refuse to let us share a bed. We're both 24 years old, and have been married- in the eyes of God no less- for over a year, but they don't think it's "appropriate" for us to share a bed. Can you believe that?! I am grateful that they took us in when we needed a leg up, but how can they be so old-fashioned?!

I've always had a problem with premature ejaculation during intercourse. I've tried everything from desensitizing creams to masturbating a few hours before, but nothing seems to help. My girlfriend is patient, but I can't help feeling guilty and embarrassed. Help!

I'm having girl trouble. Yes, I have to admit that I'm not the most confident person in the world, but people look up to me. I've been in a relationship for many years and now there is someone else that has come into the picture.

This new woman makes me feel free. It's something that I've never really had a chance to feel before. I don't want to hurt my current girlfriend, because we've been through hell and back several times over. I need help on what to do here.

I had been trying (unsuccessfully) to catch the attention of a secretary in the office for months now. I thought the best moment to make a move would be at the office Christmas party. So at the party itself we all drank a lot, and I think she drank a little too much... and we hooked up. I really like her, but she's been really cold and standoffish to me ever since the party. I wish we hadn't gotten together under the influence of alcohol. Do you have any advice? How can I bridge that gap?

My wife and I have been married 16 wonderful years. We met in grad school, and embarked on similar career paths upon graduation. She's wonderful. A great mother to our two boys, a fantastic wife (who's still beautiful and sexy after all these years), and a successful professional.

It's that last bit that's proving to be the problem. See, we're in the same profession, but she's advanced up the career ladder much faster than I have and now makes nearly twice what I do. To be honest, there are times that I don't feel quite like a man.

I know it's the 21st Century, but I was raised to believe that a man provides for his family. I'm supportive of my wife's career and all, and my salary isn't too shabby, but how do I get past this inferiority complex?

My husband recently started acting... different. Missing dinners, keeping odd hours. I'm worried that he's having an affair. What should I do?

I'm a 23-year-old woman and my boyfriend is 24. He and I have been together almost eight months now and sexually active for most of that time. We've both been tested and are tired of the inconvenience and expense of condoms and are looking into other forms of birth control. I'm thinking about the pill, but I'm concerned about possible hormonal side effects. What do you recommend?

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. My girlfriend has offered to set up a threeway with one of her friends for my birthday. The thing is, I am not at all attracted to the friend with whom she has arranged this. She's already gotten the ball rolling on it, so I need a way to back out gracefully and without hurting our friend’s feelings. Please help.

My girlfriend of the last six months has been trying to spice things up in the bedroom. In an effort to keep our romance lively, we've been consulting the Kama Sutra in a never-ending parade of increasingly varied and crazy positions. Sure, the sex is fun, but it's the soreness and stiffness -and not the fun kind- the next day that's bugging me out. Should I try to slowly move our sexual repertoire back to where it was or hire a physical therapist to help me recuperate from our lovemaking?